Whoever said, “go with what you feel,” probably didn’t have this in mind!
It’s so easy to do. You meet a guy who takes your breath away. You start picturing yourself on dates. You think about him at random times throughout the day. You wonder what he’s thinking about at that moment. You also wonder what you would be like as a serious couple; as a married couple.… Continue reading No Man Determines my Dreams
Dear So and So,
I wanted to be the one who when you thought about the rest of your life, was there with you.
You were getting married. To someone else. On my birthday.
I looked at the bird and he turned his head back and forth, looking deathly afraid.
I was out at a gala last week, talking with some ladies I go to school with. As a paralegal major, it seems that many of my fellow students are not fresh out of high school, but close to, if not, over 30. The majority of us are women. Coming along with that most of… Continue reading Talking Sex…
Some moments stay with you, making you look back and really think. When thinking about what I want in a man, I made a list. Not necessarily a checklist. It was more of a list of things that are non-negotiable. When I originally made my list around the age of 24, I had crafted some… Continue reading A Beautiful Guy
27. Waiting for marriage. Difficult? “Bleep” yes!! As a little girl, I thought about the day I married my prince. When I got a little older, I was scared that he would leave because when I was almost 4, I watched my dad (“dada”) involuntarily leave this world. I’ve healed over the years and think… Continue reading Virginally Speaking…
I get excited when things go right. I’m thrilled when they go according to my plan. According to personality tests, I’m not much of a melancholy personality (meaning someone who likes their clothes perfectly pressed, enjoys a schedule, and makes lists for fun); but enough challenges have presented themselves in my life that over the… Continue reading A Perception of Perfection: When Everyone Else Has Everything You Want